Growing up in a predominantly white area, my options were limited.
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He was tall, authoritative, kind, and loving, but I never thought about what colour he would be. Advertisement Aged 16, I entered my first interracial relationship.
The topic of race never came up. I was two, possibly even three, but definitely a secret.
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But I went into my 20s without many Black friends I want the kinkiest little girl in town more interracial relationships followed. With each relationship, I accepted the fetishisation of the curly-haired, mixed-race babies I could provide Picture: Jazmin Duribe I watched a few of my white friends date Black men.
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Often race never got discussed at all. On social media and beyond, conversations about colonialism, institutional racism and the systemic barriers that keep Black people one step behind have become our new normal.
But had I even practiced what I preached? Seeing Black people protest just to have equality, and to not die at the hands of the police, triggered something inside of me.
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I have been guilty of letting things slide for the sake of ignorant bliss but racism will not just vanish by ignoring it, or being silent, because that can be seen as complicity. Acceptance.
I believed that being in an interracial relationship was no different to being with someone of the same race. But what I thought was a shared experience is simply a delusion.
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Even if you and your partner grew up in the same town, on the same street, being a different race comes with a completely different set of challenges and experiences. Race will have to be discussed at the very start.
What steps will they take to be proactively be anti-racist?