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Light-skinned women from New Orleans reported being judged and dismissed by their darker peers. Those darker women reported being rejected by those lighter women. Blay said that one consequence of having dark skin is never having her racial identity or authenticity questioned. She is the artistic director a project called 1 drop that compiles stories of people who embrace their blackness even if their appearance causes other people to question it.

Few topics, if any, have generated more responses than discussion on colorism. Some women who responded were more comfortable with their names being used than. What follows is a sampling of the responses. They have been edited for grammar, clarity and length. Name withheld: I am a fair-skinned black woman, born and raised in New Orleans who caught hell as because I was rejected by both blacks and whites.

Blacks get angry with us "Creoles" thinking we are being uppity or snooty; but the facts, as I experienced them, are that black girls did not want to play with me and tormented me with names like "white girl," "passe blanc," "high yellow," and on and on. Whites, on the other hand, were fine with me - until they realized I was black.

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Why, as mothers, do women say, "I just hope she don't come out black like her father? I have been accused of only wanting "light bright" babies. One friend from Africa told New orleans ebony single women that he knew I would never give him a chance because he was too black. It wasn't the fact that we were different spiritually and had different goals and education, Horny Phoenix Arizona women that he was too dark.

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Then I thought about how ridiculous that is and have come to my senses. This issue will fade as others. I did like the part of the film where the woman explained that we haven't been out of slavery and treated equally very long when you compare it to the amount of New orleans ebony single women we were enslaved. There are lasting scars that will take time to heal.

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My mother's side is Creole, and my father is Italian and black. My three siblings and I are all very light in complexion and have been told we generally don't have features that are typical of "being black. But with that was an underlying tone that anything more "ethnic," as my grandparents would put it, was less attractive and less desirable. From hairstyles to fashion choices to New orleans ebony single women guys I tried to date, I was criticized and interrogated.

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My father's family was "light skinned" and my mom's family was a mixture of. My father was never a part of my life, and I often wonder if my mom had been lighter if I would have been blessed with both parents.

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