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Bell, Weinberg, and Hammersmithreported that half of their man homosexual subjects practiced gender-inappropriate behaviour in childhood. Among their heterosexual men, the rate of noncompliance was 25 percent.
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Saghir and Robins18 found that one-third of their gay man respondents conformed to gender role dictates. Only 3 percent of their heterosexual men deviated from the norm.
In conversations with each other, they often undergo a subtle change. I have seen men who appeared to be normal suddenly smile roguishly, soften their voices, and simper as they greeted homosexual friends Many times I saw these changes occur after I had Bttm bear looking for top man a homosexual's confidence and he could safely risk my disapproval.
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